Love is one of the most profound emotions known to human beings. Most people seek its expression in a romantic relationship with a compatible partner. The relationship is a step of mutual understanding between two persons to accept the fact that they are in love with each other.
Relations are hard to maintain. Be it the relation of family or friends or siblings. Every relation requires a certain amount of commitment from both the person.
This commitment plays an even bigger role when it’s romantic relationship between two people. For romantic relation, unlike other relationship is not a commitment between two known people, it’s a commitment of two people from completely different backgrounds.
A romantic relationship requires greater understanding and care than other relationship. Love plays a vital part in the longevity of the relationship, but the importance of trust, respect, and space cannot be overlooked by us.
To have a successful relationship, make the relationship your top priority without compromising your other relations. Be truthful to your partner; express your fears, needs truthfully. Be it physical or emotional being clear about your needs is important.
Being truthful goes a long way in keeping the relationship intact. There must be also a friendship blossoming between the two people who are in a relationship. Lack of friendship and the emotional connection may lead one of the partners to seek intimacy in other places, resulting in emotional and even physical adultery.
Every relation will have its share of challenges. You need to be emotionally, physically and mentally ready to face the challenges head-on with your partner that comes from intimacy. Challenges are a test on the intimacy of the two persons in the relationship. If you are unable to handle the challenges properly your relationship will come to an end quickly.
Relationships fail due to many reasons, and the failure of a relationship is often a source of great psychological anguish. Most of us have to work consciously to master the skills necessary to make them flourish. Still, people do not address the problems of the relationship properly.
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One of the reasons for failure can be attributed to the fact that partners fail to address their fear and needs properly with one another. Then the blame game starts. Rather than talking about their problems with one another, they start blaming each other for the lack of intimacy in their relationship.
The partners at this point do not hesitate to talk about their relationship problems with other people blaming the significant other for the lack of commitment in the relationship. A trivial matter becomes a big issue as more and more people get involved in the problem. The main issue gets completely neglected while several different other problems start among them. The relationship problem that could have been solved just by talking escalates into a much bigger problem.
Most of the relationship ends at this. Many relationships that could have been saved just by talking are destroyed by the lack of communication between the two people. It leaves a bitter image of the relationship between the two people which let to be hesitant to commit themselves in a relationship in future. If only they had realized no problem is big if you talk it out with them rather than blaming them, maybe the relationship would have continued to grow with time.
No one is perfect and neither can a relationship be perfect. It will have issues, it will have problems. It’s up to you how you sort out those issues. Will you talk it out and save it before it hit the rocks or will you let your fear to take over it? The choice lies with you, only with you.
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